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When I was single and dating at least I didn't have to contend with the horror of people fetishising my background, but that didn't stop a breathtaking number of penis pics making their way to my inbox. The impression that online dating is like online shopping, and lists of qualities add up to the perfect mate, goes against what we all know to be true in the real world: lists of stereotypes don't work.
If you are the sort of person who wonders why date after date goes badly wrong, could it be the stringent and frankly arbitrary rules - about race, or age, or income or whatever - that may be contributing to this?
Research from UC Davis by sociologist Kevin Lewis noted that apart from men wanting to contact Asian women, people on the whole were less than keen to make contact outside their own race.
According to his results, in some cases it may be fear of rejection playing a part in that reluctance.
They’re not saying I irrationally, compulsively, and obsessively fetishize my Asian partners; instead, they’re implying that I consider a woman’s race when dating.
Maybe we all do and maybe it’s just part of our lengthy list of sexual preferences. But because of the negative connotations associated with yellow fever’s other, more troublesome definition, the label is disrespectful to every smart, funny, kind, beautiful, and wholly wonderful Asian women I’ve loved.
Men across the board all preferred Asian women, apart from Asian men, who preferred Latinas. Cue a million stereotypes about how some groups of women are magically and uniformly "gentle" and "feminine". Go to Google, and start typing in "[race] women are…" and see what the autocomplete suggests as the most popular way of completing this statement.
You get these gems: 'Black women are repulsive' 'Asian women are gold diggers' 'Latin women are loyal' It's pretty depressing stuff.
But I wrote this essay because the term is becoming more popular.I didn’t think much about yellow fever at the time, though, because my 12-year-old brain was a veritable encyclopedia of crude lingo.To me, it was just another form of teasing that I threw into my sizable trashcan of forgotten terms, lying dormant all these years—until now.Admittedly, the dating game is not equal and it is not kind.Dating site OK Cupid has carved out a nice little sideline in blogging about the statistics of their more successful users, to try to help people along the way, busting myths about what does and does constitute a good profile photo and whether eating oatmeal correlates with people you'll like or drinking beer correlates with sex on the first date.